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MypressuresForalmosttwentyyears,Ihadbeenlookingforwardtobeingadmittedtoakeyuniversity.Butaftergettingintotheuniversityin2009,Ifindthateverythingisnotthatperfect.Universityisnotaparadise,oranivorytower.Maybeitoncewasbutnotanymorenowduetotherapiddevelopmentofsocietyandeconomy.Manykindsofpressuresbegintoappear,whichIhadneverthoughtofbeforethecollegetime.Ofcourse,Ican’tleavethosepressuresastheyare.InthiswayIgraduallydevelopsomewaystocopewiththenever-endingpressuresandfinallyfigureoutsomeveryeffectivestrategies.Firstandforemost,IwouldliketotalkaboutthepressuresIhavebeenfacedwithduringmycollegetime.
a.Thelifearrangementpressure.Asweallknow,wealwayshadatightacademicschedule.Wedidn’tneedtobothertothinkaboutwhatweshoulddoeveryday.However,inuniversity,thingsaretotallydifferentandwehaveagreatamountoffreetime.Andteachersarenolongeralwayswithusandwejustgetthefreedomwehadbeenaskingforinthefirsttwentyyearsofourlife.Butwithsomuchfreedom,Ijustdon’tknowhowtodealwiththem.ItseemsthatI’mentirelylostaboutwhatI’mgoingforsinceIjustfinishedthecollegeentranceexamination.Alifewithoutgoalsisabsolutelyterrible,Imustsay.Sohowtosetupanewgoaland,arrangeplentyoffreetimeandgetmyselfsomethingstodoisdefinitelythemostimportantthingIshoulddo.

b.Thestudypressure.Itisafactthatourcollegeclassmatesaremostlythesame.Weareallveryexcellent.Itseemsthatwearenolongeruniqueorwejustlostthesenseofsuperiorityorpopularity.Sowehavetofigureouthowtoshapeoutourselvesorfindoutouradvantagesoruniqueness.c.
Theinterpersonalrelations.Whenwewereinhighschool,ourclassmateswereallfromthesameplace.Ourdialects,ourcultures,ourfamilybackgroundsweremostlynotdifferent.Butincollege,ourclassmatesarefromacrossthecountry,fromotherprovinceswhoseculturesaretosomeextentgreatlydifferent.Withdifferentdialects,differenthabits,differentcustoms,howshouldwegetalongwitheachother？Howshouldwedealwiththoseconflicts?Howshouldweacquaintourselveswithnewclosefriends?d.Theindependencepressure.Before,wehadparents,teachers,relativeswhowouldalwaysdealwithtroublesforuswheneverandwherevertherewereanyproblems.Butincollege,awayfromourdependants,weneedtobeindependentandlearntohandlethingsonourown.Meanwhile,nomatterwhenthereweresomebigaffairs,thingswhichcouldhaveanimmenseinfluenceonourfuture,ourparentsjustcan’thelp“instructing”us.Soinsomeaspects,wecan’tchooseourlife,whichissuretoconflictwiththesenseofindependencewejustgettohave.Also,whenothersespeciallyourparentstrytointerferewithourideas,wetendtofeelthatwearenotrespectedorunderstood.Asaresult,suchawardsituationtorturesusalot.Thefirstfourpressuresmostlyoccurredwhenwearefreshmenor

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