Friendship on the rocks: Please advice
Amy
Monday 12/10 9:13 p.m.
My best friend and I have been close for eight years. When I was an awkward primary school student, she was the popular girl who was willing to make friends with me. Since then, a close friendship has grown between us and she's been almost like a sister to me. Whether we're walking to school, doing homework or just hanging out at the weekend, we're hardly out of each other's sight. But last Saturday, she broke my heart, and I'm still picking up the pieces.
Our original plan was to see a film at the cinema that afternoon. But in the morning, my friend posted a message on social media saying she had a cold. When I called her, she said she might not be able to make it to the cinema. "Don't worry." I said. "Get some rest. We can wait till you get better."
Today, however, I received a horrible surprise. A classmate told me she had seen my friend chatting with another girl in a cafe on Saturday afternoon. How stupid I was! My friend's "illness" was a complete lie! Instead of recovering at home, she was out having fun with someone else.
Cindy
Monday 12/10 9:13 p.m.
I was so angry that I avoided her during school all day, and I still don't feel like responding to any of her online messages. The stress of this situation is killing me.and I'm at a loss what to do next.
I'm so sorry! But this friendship is worth saving: eight years is a long time! Don't be so quick to judge your friend. Perhaps she knows she's in the wrong and wants to apologize, or maybe she has a simple explanation for her behaviour. In any case, find an opportunity to have a full and frank talk with her. Listen to what she has to say, and be sure to explain how you feel. I'm sure you can solve this problem together.
David
Tuesday 1V/10 s:l1 p.m.
I definitely understand how you feel. I also had a friend whom I trusted a lot. When I found out that I was tricked by him, I was really hurt and let go of our friendship. I know you value your friendship and want your friend to value it equally, However, if your friend ignores your feelings or makes you suffer, it's time to rethink your relationship. Talk to her and decide whether this friendship is still important to you. It's sad to move on, but you have to accept that friends come and go in life
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