A review of Dear Andreas
It is universally acknowledged that a son is definitely their parents’son but not“other person”and he has some special and subtle relationship with their parents.After reading a book,named Dear Andreas,which is formed in a novel way,complete with letters between a son,Andreas,person of mixed race,who ever lived in Taiwan and now lives in Germany and his mother,Long Yingtai,a writer,rather than articles written by only one person between them.
When Andreas was 14 years old, his mother left Europe for the north of Taiwan to take up her job.With time going by,Andreas became an adult as his mother quit her job and went back to him.However,what upset his mother most was that she had found there should be invisible walls which separated her from her dear son.She realized that his son just“loved”her rather than“liked”her.After all they had a number of different things and had lived separately on their own.Then she made up her mind to recognize “the stranger” again.Therefore,they had been corresponding with each other for three years.In this way,they mutually penetrated into their hearts and recognized the other.
The book contains thirty-six letters,aiming at bridging the generation gap,discussing the opinions of the new and the old,the Left and the Right,the popular culture and the humanities and all.It expresses the two different generations’ values.According to it, the mother shared her previous life,the small fishing village,where she grew up,located in the south of Taiwan and the living environment,which was lack of new and novel things and so forth.The son told his mother how to defend his lovings and how to do as a German and so on.As to justice,reason and civilization,it presented me with an over-generation bond.
In these letters,Andreas ever said:“MM,you just have regarded me as a little boy.You can’t completely realize that I have been an adult.Despite the fact that you have set me free,you only to consider the freedom you gave me as your authority.You have never seen it as the rights I deserve all the time since I was born.That is to say that you have difficulty getting it that your son is not your son but the other person who is fully independent of you.”
I begin to think about what the bond between a child and his or her parents is?It is likely to reshape my previous values and world view.What relationship between my parents and I is on earth?
As far as I am concerned,the majority of parents in China probably think the western and opening education methods are better than ours at present.What is optimistic is that they also regard their children as the individuals.On the contrary,they seldom put it into practice.What’s worse,they are unable to drain the traditional parts of their blood to improve the presence.Instead,they expect their children are supposed to comply with the exact order,respect and rely on them.As a matter of fact,Chinese parents are restricted to a conventional circle that rejects the new things,especially the Wolf Dad and the Tiger Mother.Furthermore,I reckon that we,as for adults,need our space and freedom to work out what we should do and accomplish what we desire,not restrained by our parents and others.On the meanwhile,the society,which we live in,ought to be willing to build a better environment to help us to achieve our dreams.
The rights,to which are attached importance,are to become the reasons why we have freedom and own thoughts.
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