A Japanese film, including play, so I spent years wondering -- her husband in the street met his wife walking alone, suddenly his wife quiet way to shock -- at that time, I thought, his shock from, he found that his woman, not when he accompanied also pretty happy.
现在，一句诗却给了我新的角度：站在街角不等谁，这本身就是一种力量感。
Now, a poem gave me a new perspective: standing on the corner with who, which in itself is a sense of power.
和一位男性好友聊天，他说，他单独出去吃饭时。总是会告诉服务生有两个人，然后，等饭菜上来，多事的服务生若有询问，他便解释一句：“朋友来不了。”问他为什么会有这样的怪癖，他闪烁其词：“一个人吃饭挺怪的。”
Chat with a male friend, he said, he alone go out to eat. www.007gqsxsb.com Always tell the waiter has two people, then, the food up, much health service to ask if he would explain, saying: "the friend can't come." Asked why he had such eccentricities, he dodge about: "a person to eat strange."
和一个台湾女人聊天，她说，她不管吃饭还是做发型。都会带上书，用书将自己和旁人的好奇隔绝——独自一人时，她不愿意被他人打扰，甚至。也不愿意面对自己，所以将精力集中到另一个世界去。
And a Taiwan woman chat, she said, she whether to eat or to do hair. Take the book, book himself and others curious isolation -- alone, she does not want to be disturbed by others, even. Is not willing to face their own, so the focus to another world.
还有女友，曾经吸烟的理由就是：“一个人待着的时候，不至于显得无事可做，手里拿根烟，让发呆显得不那么呆。”
And his girlfriend who smoked, reason is: http://www.tianlaipai.com/catalog.asp?cate=3"when a person to stay, not to seem to have nothing to do, holding a cigarette, let a daze is not so stay."
与自己好好相处也许才是最难的事，如果不是在自己的寓所，就更容易敏感紧张成一只掉队的小兽，不敢轻易靠近谁，也不想被他人靠近。
Get along with oneself is perhaps the most difficult thing, if not in his own apartment, more sensitive strain into a backward little beast, not easily close to the who, also don't want to be near.
书，或者随身听、墨镜，与其说是享受或装点，不如承认吧——用这掩饰不安的盾牌来杜绝被人看穿、靠近、伤害。
The book, or a walkman, sunglasses, saying with its is to enjoy or decorate, rather than admit it -- this belies the restive shield to avoid being caught, near, damage.
所以才会从小女孩时，就需要拉着小伙伴一起上学放学。连去洗手间都要约个共同时间；长大后，手里拉的不再是同性伙伴，而是异性的恋人，除了上班下班上洗手间，希望能一同对付所有其他的时间……越是回避独处，越是害怕独处；越是想躲避伤害，越是会迎来伤害。收拾得体面漂亮的女人们，内心脆弱得像块湖上的薄冰。于是转身羡慕那些仿佛拥有力量的女人们。
So from a young girl, you need to pull a small partner school. Even to Restroom all offer a common time; grew up, hand pull is no longer a same-sex partner, but heterosexual lovers, in addition to work on Restroom, http://www.007gqsxsb.com/catalog.asp?cate=1 hoping to deal with all the other time...... The more avoidance alone, the more afraid of being alone; the more want to avoid damage, the more will usher in damage. Pack up decent beautiful women, weak heart like a lake on the ice. Then turned to envy those who seemed to have the power of women.
其实，用不着羡慕，这些女人们的精神内核非常简单：不等待任何人，也就不需要任何人：不用道具隔离自己，也就不隔离任何可能性；不害怕发呆时的呆，也就更能在精神世界里专注……
In fact, needn't envy, spirit of these women are very simple: don't wait for anyone, do not need any props: not isolate themselves, http://www.yeyanmai2.com/post/124.html do not isolate any possibility; not afraid of a stay, will concentrate more in the spirit world......
她们取胜的法宝，就是安静，就是漫不经心，就是可以因为要专心涂指甲油而挂掉恋人的电话而产生的难以被掌控的力量感。
Magic, their success is quiet, is to pay no heed to, is because to concentrate on the nail polish and hung up the phone and lovers cannot be controlled force.
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