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TED演讲为什么认为自己丑会对你不利
TED演讲为什么认为自己丑会对你不利
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MeaghanRamsey:Whythinkingyou'reuglyisbadforyou
所谓“看脸的世界”到底是由谁造成的?是他人的目光亦或是我们看待自己的目光?
你知道吗?认为自己丑不但让自己感觉糟糕,而且还会削弱你的学业成绩,甚至会损
害你的健康。而我们要如何改变对自身相貌的不自信呢?从下面这个讲座中找找答案
吧!
Whyyoushouldlisten
?
MeaghanRamseygetsgiddywatchingher1-year-oldnieceadmireherselfinthe
mirror.Becausesheknowsthat,fortoomanygirls,thisadmirationstopsasthey
moveintoadolescenceandself-doubtabouttheirappearancecreepsin.Asthe
GlobalDirectoroftheDoveSelf-EsteemProjectatUnilever,Ramseyandher
colleaguesaimtoimprovetheself-esteemofmorethan15milliongirlsandyoung
womenby2015.Sheisastrongambassadorforhelpinggirlsandwomendevelop
resilienceinthefaceofaculturethatassaultswithunattainableimagesofbeauty
andthinness.
Bothabranddeveloperandstrategist,Ramseyhaslongworkedtofuelbusiness
growthspurredonbysocialchange.PriortotheDoveSelf-EsteemProject,she
workedwiththeWorldHeartFederationandtheDietitiansAssociationofAustralia.
TED
演讲文本:
0:10
Thisismyniece,Stella.She'sjustturnedoneandstartedtowalk.Andshe'swalking
inthatreallycoolwaythatone-year-oldsdo,akindofteetering,my-body's-moving-
too-fast-for-my-legskindofway.Itisabsolutelygorgeous.Andoneofherfavorite
thingstodoatthemomentistostareatherselfinthemirror.Sheabsolutelyloves
herreflection.Shegigglesandsqueals,andgivesherselfthesebig,wetkisses.Itis
beautiful.Apparently,allofherfriendsdothisandmymomtellsmethatIusedto
dothis,anditgotmethinking:WhendidIstopdoingthis?Whenisitsuddenlynot
okaytolovethewaythatwelook?Becauseapparentlywedon't.
1:01
Tenthousandpeopleeverymonthgoogle,"AmIugly?"ThisisFaye.Fayeis13and
shelivesinDenver.Andlikeanyteenager,shejustwantstobelikedandtofitin.
It'sSundaynight.She'sgettingreadyfortheweekaheadatschool.Andshe's
slightlydreadingit,andshe'sabitconfusedbecausedespitehermomtellingherall
thetimethatshe'sbeautiful,everydayatschool,someonetellsherthatshe'sugly.
Becauseofthedifferencebetweenwhathermomtellsherandwhatherfriendsat
school,orherpeersatschoolaretellingher,shedoesn'tknowwhotobelieve.So,
shetakesavideoofherself.ShepostsittoYouTubeandsheaskspeopletoplease
leaveacomment:"AmIprettyoramIugly?"Well,sofar,Fayehasreceivedover
13,000comments.Someofthemaresonasty,theydon'tbearthinkingabout.This
isanaverage,healthy-lookingteenagegirlreceivingthisfeedbackatoneofthemost
emotionallyvulnerabletimesinherlife.Thousandsofpeoplearepostingvideoslike
this,mostlyteenagegirls,reachingoutinthisway.Butwhat'sleadingthemtodo
this?
2:18
Well,today'steenagersarerarelyalone.They'reunderpressuretobeonlineand
availableatalltimes,talking,messaging,liking,commenting,sharing,posting
—
it
neverends.Neverbeforehavewebeensoconnected,socontinuously,so
instantaneously,soyoung.Andasonemomtoldme,it'slikethere'sapartyintheir
bedroomeverynight.There'ssimplynoprivacy.Andthesocialpressuresthatgo
alongwiththatarerelentless.Thisalways-onenvironmentistrainingourkidsto
valuethemselvesbasedonthenumberoflikestheygetandthetypesofcomments
thattheyreceive.There'snoseparationbetweenonlineandofflinelife.What'sreal
orwhatisn'tisreallyhardtotellthedifferencebetween.Andit'salsoreallyhardto
tellthedifferencebetweenwhat'sauthenticandwhat'sdigitallymanipulated.What's
ahighlightinsomeone'slifeversuswhat'snormalinthecontextofeveryday.
3:25
Andwherearetheylookingtoforinspiration?Well,youcanseethekindsofimages
thatarecoveringthenewsfeedsofgirlstoday.Sizezeromodelsstilldominateour
catwalks.Airbrushingisnowroutine.Andtrendslike#thinspiration,#thighgap,
#bikinibridgeand#proana.Forthosewhodon'tknow,#proanameanspro-anorexia.
Thesetrendsareteamedwiththestereotypingandflagrantobjectificationofwomen
intoday'spopularculture.Itisnothardtoseewhatgirlsarebenchmarking
themselvesagainst.Butboysarenotimmunetothiseither.Aspiringtothechiseled
jawlinesandrippedsixpacksofsuperhero-likesportsstarsandplayboymusic
artists.
4:11
But,what'stheproblemwithallofthis?Well,surelywewantourkidstogrowupas
healthy,wellbalancedindividuals.Butinanimage-obsessedculture,wearetraining
ourkidstospendmoretimeandmentaleffortontheirappearanceattheexpenseof
alloftheotheraspectsoftheiridentities.So,thingsliketheirrelationships,the
developmentoftheirphysicalabilities,andtheirstudiesandsoonbegintosuffer.
Sixoutof10girlsarenowchoosingnottodosomethingbecausetheydon'tthink
theylookgoodenough.Thesearenottrivialactivities.Thesearefundamental
activitiestotheirdevelopmentashumansandascontributorstosocietyandtothe
workforce.Thirty-onepercent,nearlyoneinthreeteenagers,arewithdrawingfrom
classroomdebate.They'refailingtoengageinclassroomdebatebecausetheydon't
wanttodrawattentiontothewaythattheylook.Oneinfivearenotshowingupto
classatallondayswhentheydon'tfeelgoodaboutit.Andwhenitcomestoexams,
ifyoudon'tthinkyoulookgoodenough,specificallyifyoudon'tthinkyouarethin
enough,youwillscorealowergradepointaveragethanyourpeerswhoarenot
concernedwiththis.AndthisisconsistentacrossFinland,theU.S.andChina,andis
trueregardlessofhowmuchyouactuallyweigh.Sotobesuperclear,we'retalking
aboutthewayyouthinkyoulook,nothowyouactuallylook.Lowbodyconfidenceis
underminingacademicachievement.
5:54
Butit'salsodamaginghealth.Teenagerswithlowbodyconfidencedolessphysical
activity,eatlessfruitsandvegetables,partakeinmoreunhealthyweightcontrol
practicesthatcanleadtoeatingdisorders.Theyhavelowerself-esteem.They're
moreeasilyinfluencedbypeoplearoundthemandthey'reatgreaterriskof
depression.Andwethinkit'sforallofthesereasonsthattheytakemoreriskswith
thingslikealcoholanddruguse;crashdieting;cosmeticsurgery;unprotected,
earliersex;andself-harm.Thepursuitoftheperfectbodyisputtingpressureonour
healthcaresystemsandcostingourgovernmentsbillionsofdollarseveryyear.
6:39
Andwedon'tgrowoutofit.Womenwhothinkthey'reoverweight
—
again,
regardlessofwhethertheyareorarenot
—
havehigherratesofabsenteeism.
Seventeenpercentofwomenwouldnotshowuptoajobinterviewonadaywhen
theyweren'tfeelingconfidentaboutthewaythattheylook.
7:00
Haveathinkaboutwhatthisisdoingtooureconomy.Ifwecouldovercomethis,
whatthatopportunitylookslike.Unlockingthispotentialisintheinterestofevery
singleoneofus.
7:14
Buthowdowedothat?Well,talking,onitsown,onlygetsyousofar.It'snot
enoughbyitself.Ifyouactuallywanttomakeadifference,youhavetodo
something.Andwe'velearnedtherearethreekeyways:Thefirstiswehaveto
educateforbodyconfidence.Wehavetohelpourteenagersdevelopstrategiesto
overcomeimage-relatedpressuresandbuildtheirself-esteem.Now,thegoodnews
isthattherearemanyprogramsoutthereavailabletodothis.Thebadnewsisthat
mostofthemdon'twork.Iwasshockedtolearnthatmanywell-meaningprograms
areinadvertentlyactuallymakingthesituationworse.Soweneedtomakedamn
surethattheprogramsthatourkidsarereceivingarenotonlyhavingapositive
impact,buthavingalastingimpactaswell.
8:08
Andtheresearchshowsthatthebestprogramsaddresssixkeyareas:Thefirstis
theinfluenceoffamily,friendsandrelationships.Thesecondismediaandcelebrity
culture,thenhowtohandleteasingandbullying,thewaywecompeteandcompare
withoneanotherbasedonlooks,talkingaboutappearance
—
somepeoplecallthis
"bodytalk"or"fattalk"
—
andfinally,thefoundationsofrespectingandlookingafter
yourself.Thesesixthingsarecrucialstartingpointsforanyoneseriousabout
deliveringbody-confidenceeducationthatworks.Aneducationiscritical,buttackling
thisproblemisgoingtorequireeachandeveryoneofustostepupandbebetter
rolemodelsforthewomenandgirlsinourownlives.Challengingthestatusquoof
howwomenareseenandtalkedaboutinourowncircles.
9:01
Itisnotokaythatwejudgethecontributionofourpoliticiansbytheirhaircutsorthe
sizeoftheirbreasts,ortoinferthatthedeterminationorthesuccessofanOlympian
isdowntohernotbeingalooker.Weneedtostartjudgingpeoplebywhattheydo,
notwhattheylooklike.
9:22
Wecanallstartbytakingresponsibilityforthetypesofpicturesandcommentsthat
wepostonourownsocialnetworks.Wecancomplimentpeoplebasedontheir
effortandtheiractionsandnotontheirappearance.
9:38
Andletmeaskyou,whenwasthelasttimethatyoukissedamirror?Ultimately,we
needtoworktogetherascommunities,asgovernmentsandasbusinessestoreally
changethiscultureofourssothatourkidsgrowupvaluingtheirwholeselves,
valuingindividuality,diversity,inclusion.Weneedtoputthepeoplethataremaking
arealdifferenceonourpedestals,makingadifferenceintherealworld.Givingthem
theairtime,becauseonlythenwillwecreateadifferentworld.Aworldwhereour
kidsarefreetobecomethebestversionsofthemselves,wherethewaytheythink
theylookneverholdsthembackfrombeingwhotheyareorachievingwhatthey
wantinlife.
10:28
Thinkaboutwhatthismightmeanforsomeoneinyourlife.Whohaveyougotin
mind?Isityourwife?Yoursister?Yourdaughter?Yourniece?Yourfriend?Itcould
justbethewomanacoupleofseatsawayfromyoutoday.Whatwoulditmeanfor
herifshewerefreedfromthatvoiceofherinnercritic,nagginghertohavelonger
legs,thinnerthighs,smallerstomach,shorterfeet?Whatcoulditmeanforherifwe
overcamethisandunlockedherpotentialinthatway?
11:06
Rightnow,ourculture'sobsessionwithimageisholdingusallback.Butlet'sshow
ourkidsthetruth.Let'sshowthemthatthewayyoulookisjustonepartofyour
identityandthatthetruthiswelovethemforwhotheyareandwhattheydoand
howtheymakeusfeel.Let'sbuildself-esteemintoourschoolcurriculums.Let'seach
andeveryoneofuschangethewaywetalkandcompareourselvestootherpeople.
Andlet'sworktogetherascommunities,fromgrassrootstogovernments,sothatthe
happylittleone-year-oldsoftodaybecometheconfidentchangemakersoftomorrow.
Let'sdothis.(Applause
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